Funeral Rites

Guidelines for Christian Burial

  • Deceased members of the Christian faithful must be given ecclesiastical funerals according to the norm of law.

  • Ecclesiastical funerals, by which the Church seeks spiritual support for the deceased, honors their bodies, and at the same time brings the solace of hope to the living, must be celebrated according to the norm of the liturgical laws.

  • The Church earnestly recommends that the pious custom of burying the bodies of the deceased be observed; nevertheless, the Church does not prohibit cremation unless it was chosen for reasons contrary to Christian doctrine.

Guidelines for Cremation

  • Although cremation is now permitted, it does not enjoy the same value as burial of the body. The Church clearly prefers and urges that the body of the deceased be present for the funeral rites, since the presence of the human body better expresses the values, which the Church affirms in those rites.

  • When extraordinary circumstances make the cremation of the body the only feasible choice, pastoral sensitivity must be exercised by priests, deacons, and others who minister to the family of the deceased.

  • The cremated remains of a body should be treated with the same respect given to the human body from which they came. This includes the use of a worthy vessel to contain the ashes, the manner in which they are carried, the care and attention to appropriate placement and transport, and the final disposition. The cremated remains should be buried in a grave or entombed in a mausoleum or columbarium. The practice of scattering cremated remains on the sea, from the air, or on the ground, or keeping cremated remains in the home of a relative or friend of the deceased are not the reverent disposition that the Church requires.

  • When the choice has been made to cremate a body, it is recommended that the cremation take place after the Funeral Liturgy.

The celebration of the Funeral Liturgy, including Mass, in the presence of the cremated remains of the body of a deceased person, may be permitted by the Diocesan Bishop.

Planning for the Funeral Rite

All funeral arrangements must be initiated and approved by Fr. José Marquez.

Funeral and memorial celebrations at Mary Queen of Peace use ‘Through Death to Life’ by Fr. Marquez as our planning guide. For advance planning, you can also request a copy of this book from the parish office. It contains all the suggested options for Scripture reading and prayers, as well as a handy tear-out planning sheet for you to submit to Fr. Marquez.

Additional Details are described and explained in this document.

The Order of Christian Funerals celebrates the Church’s faith in the crucified and risen Jesus and the believer’s share in that victory over death. It also marks the end of the believer’s life on earth, and gives thanks for that life.

Christian Burial is as old as the Church itself. From its earliest days, the Church has taught that the bodies of the faithful are sacred… formed to the image and likeness of God, temples of the Holy Spirit, and destined for glorification and eternal life. This is mirrored in the dignity and beauty of a Catholic Cemetery. Because non-Catholics are part of Catholic families, the Church also favors the burial of non-Catholic members of Catholic families in our cemeteries.

If you have questions regarding Funerals, or would like to get started on planning one, please contact Fr. Marquez via email or phone.